Annie Schlechter
Hospitality is making your guests feel at home, even if you wish they were. So, first things first. A visitor’s first impression of your home is often made from the sidewalk or stoop. You want it to say, “Happy you are here!”
Lisa Porter
Greet your guests with warmth & spirit. Your welcome will set the tone for the entire visit.
Linda Banks Design
Having a guest room is a luxury for some & thankfully not a necessity.
Single, double, queen, or king? I know that single beds are a thing of the past but they do allow for the most flexibility. Couples keep close & adversaries turn to respective walls.
Single, double, queen, or king? I know that single beds are a thing of the past but they do allow for the most flexibility. Couples keep close & adversaries turn to respective walls.
Kathy Kincaid Interiors
I tell husband’s & wives, that they can hold hands across the divide. This arrangement will remind them of being teenagers again.
Kathy Kincaid Interiors for Ritz Carleton
I think that a visit to family or friends should be a retreat from daily life.
Creating a cozy & gracious guest room or a quiet corner of your home is a prerequisite to being considered a great host or hostess.
Creating a cozy & gracious guest room or a quiet corner of your home is a prerequisite to being considered a great host or hostess.
Carolyne Roehm
Carolyne Roehm treats her guests with only the best. Italian pillow shams, carafe by Dior, hot water bottle in pique, mints in a sterling shell, etc...Just so you know, I will never be able to indulge you with this level of luxury.
I will, however, appeal to all of your senses in simple straightforward ways & welcome you with open arms.
Sandra Lane
Depending on how long they stay, some guests need time to unpack.
A clutch of satin or cedar hangers and two robes aren’t requirements, but if found, they will be used...and remembered. These are special touches that say, “I was expecting you.”
A clutch of satin or cedar hangers and two robes aren’t requirements, but if found, they will be used...and remembered. These are special touches that say, “I was expecting you.”
Considering that you might want to just sit and catch your breath for a few minutes, hours or days, a comfy chair, overstuffed pillows, and a soft throw are included. 
Sarah Hogan
As are fresh cut flowers, and a good bedside table for your treasures.
Simple touches in the bathroom are really luxurious touches if you ask me. No other place offers such a measure of privacy so I like to go all out!
Good lotion, bath oil, & salts are the best. But nothing is richer than fresh soap, a new toothbrush, and a stack of clean towels.
Sandra Lane for Becky
I have a special collection of towels & toiletries for her & for him.
Tim Evan Cooke for Michael
And always remember...if you have to share your own with others, everyone looks in the medicine cabinet, even Aunt Ethel & Pastor John!
When thinking about amenities for families, focus on simple, not ceremonial. A nightlight will be appreciated more than chocolates.
When left to their own devices, children will uncover endless entertainment in a strange house: great-grandfather’s Faberge egg, a beloved pashmina shawl, the dog.
Joanna Henderson
They just want to have fun so keep them in the attic, in your own children’s former room, anywhere they can play and shout from noon until night. Etiquette consultant & mommy, Mindy Lockard can help you graciously tackle young guests at Monthly Manner.
Matt Bird
My motto is fresh air saves children! Unload them in the yard and turn on the hose or sprinkler. Some of our guests arrive with babies and bring most everything needed but a crib. I’ve passed on our crib but still manage to make do.
If you don’t have the luxury of being able to provide a private retreat for your visitors, it’s still advisable to expect the unexpected. Flexibility is the watchword for both guest & host.
When we lived in our 900 sq.ft. beach bungalow in California, I used to have a sign by my backdoor that read “Backdoor Guests Are Best!” My plan of action was to clear the cushions from the couch, fill up the air mattress, pitch a tent out back, or dress the porch swing with pillows and blankets.
I would simply gather the bare essentials: pillow, blanket, & patience!
The MR. was always happy to open the best bottle of wine, light the chimenea & thankfully pull a game plan out of his pocket!
Cox and Cox
His plan usually involved independent exploration away from our little bungalow & this was the means of transportation.
A gracious guest will anticipate the passions of friends even before they arrive. A gift of artichoke pesto from Bella Cucina made for the chef, a tin of dog biscuits for Gracie or a simple packet of seeds for the green thumb is always a great way to say “We’re here!”
Bella Cucina
All sorts of guests come and for all sorts of reasons, and yet, consideration always wins the day. A handwritten thank-you note is required no matter how short the stay.
Cox and Cox
Longer visits may call for a gift. A parting gift is a gracious & a wonderful way to say so long, farewell, we had a wonderful time, and let’s do it again soon!
A Gift Wrapped Life
I highly recommend a visit with Sande at A Gift Wrapped Life for this! She is a master in the art of giving personalized attention to gifts that will surely be remembered.
A Gift Wrapped Life
Sande beautifully demonstrates graciousness & hospitality. Plus, she's just really nice!
A Gift Wrapped Life
Parting is something else altogether. A toast to good times, a hug farewell, a kiss with feeling...Embrace your guest because you want them to go or because you don’t want them to go. But do embrace.
One last thought. How do you know if you’ve given the best care...too little can leave them wondering whether or not they should have bothered coming. Too much can leave us wondering when they are finally going to leave.
If they show no signs of leaving anytime soon, here are some tips from the MR. 1. Flip the breaker switch.
2. Let Gracie lick the dishes clean.
3. Set rat traps in conspicuous corners.
4. Feign death.
Looking forward to having you!
